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What is Domestic Violence

Domestic violence is a crime.  Under Illinois law domestic violence is defined as:

Any person who physically assaults (which includes but is not limited to; hitting, choking, kicking, shoving, raping, destruction of personal property), threatens, harasses, exploits, neglects, deprives, intimidates dependents, stalks, or interferes with the personal liberty of another family or household member has broken Illinois Domestic Violence law.  

Under Illinois law family or household members are defined as:

•  family members related by blood;

•  people who are married or used to be married;

•  people who share or used to share a home, apartment, or other common dwelling;

•  people who have or allegedly have child in common or a blood relationship through a child in common;

•  people who are dating or engaged or used to date, including same sex couples; and

•  people with disabilities and their personal assistants.

One aspect of domestic violence is intimate partner violence (IPV). IPV is defined as a pattern of behaviors utilized by one partner (the abuser or batterer) to exert and maintain control over another person (the survivor or victim) where there exists an intimate, loving and dependent relationship.

 

 

SOME TECHNIQUES OF POWER AND CONTROL

 

Tools that are used by the batterer to gain and maintain control are often highly individualized to the situation, relationship and people involved. However, there are several common ways in which perpetrators of domestic violence abuse and contol their victims.These behaviors may include combinations of one or more of the following:

Physical

  • spitting, poking, shaking, grabbing, shoving, pushing, throwing, hitting open and close handed, restraining, blocking escaping, choking, hitting with objects, beating, kicking, using weapons, burning, controlling victim's access to health resources, etc.

Sexual

  • persistently pressuring for sex, coercing sex through a variety of tactics, forcing sex in front of others, forcing sex with children or third parties, physically forcing of harming a victim sexually, etc.

Psychological

  • violent acts against children or others to control intimate partner, threats of violence against victims, others or self; intimidation through attacks against pets or property, yelling, stalking; controlling a victims activities; isolating a victim; controlling a victim through immigration status; controlling a victim's access to resources (health care, medications, automobile, friends schooling, jobs, childcare etc.); emotional abuse; forcing a victim to do degrading things; controlling a victim's schedule, including health appointments, etc.

Use of economics

  • witholding funds, spending family funds, making most financial decisions, not contributing finacially to the family, controlling a victim's access to health insurance, etc.

Use of children to control an adult victim

  • hostage taking of children; physical and sexual abuse of children; forcing children to engage in physical and psychological abuse of an adult victim; custody fights; using visitation with children to monitor an adult victim, etc.

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Chicago Metropolitan Battered Women's Network
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